The Two Paths Men Fall Into (And Why Most Never Cross Into the Second)

Over the past few months, I’ve shared pieces of this work on Reddit — the deeper mechanics of long‑distance attraction, field communication, and psychic seduction.

And I’ll be honest with you:

I met a lot of resistance.

Some men told me this doesn’t exist.

Others insisted I was “delusional,” “naive,” or an “armchair practitioner.”

A few even mocked the idea that desire could rise without words.

But watching these reactions taught me something important:

Men split into two very different paths.

Path One: The World of Words.

This is where 99% of men live.

They believe attraction is logical, verbal, mechanical.

If they can just say the right thing, time the text perfectly, keep her attention long enough, maybe something will happen.

These men cling to technique because they’ve never felt their own field.

They’ve never noticed how someone softens when their energy stabilizes.

They’ve never experienced a woman turning toward them before a single word is spoken.

They’ve never sensed the invisible pull that arises when intention becomes clean.

So of course they don’t believe it exists.

Path Two: The World of Signal

This is the path fewer than 1% of men ever step into.

These men notice the subtleties:

how someone thinks of you right as you think of them

how a woman warms when your inner state shifts

how desire rises without conversation

how connection forms through presence, not performance

They recognize that the body feels what the mind cannot explain.

They understand that humans broadcast far more than they speak.

And they learn to shape that broadcast consciously.

These are the men who don’t need to argue with theory —because they feel the truth of it in real time.

And here’s the part that most men never discover:

Once you step into Path Two, attraction stops being accidental.

It becomes something you can hold, shape, and intensify at will!

You stop relying on chance.

You stop begging words to do all the work.

You start connecting on the level the feminine actually listens to.

The resistance I met on Reddit wasn’t random.

It wasn’t personal.

It was a mirror.

It showed me which men are still trapped in Path One — chasing words, technique, and validation —and which are quietly, invisibly living on Path Two, sensing the truth of energetic seduction firsthand.

This post is for the men on Path Two…

and for the rare Path One men ready to cross over.

Because once you step into this second path, attraction stops being random.

It becomes a state you hold, a signal you transmit, a field she cannot ignore.

Without wasting time,

Let’s dive in.

Shift Your Baseline State (The Foundation of All Remote Seduction)

Remote attraction doesn’t begin with her.

It begins with you.

Before you project desire…

Before you open the psychic channel…

Before you place erotic pressure into the field…

There’s one thing every unconscious man neglects:

Your baseline state.

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That aside, the truth is: these principles work the same in person.

Whether you’re across a room from her, in the same city, or continents apart, the feminine responds first to the coherence of your state, not the words you speak.

Here’s the truth most men refuse to admit:

You cannot seduce from tension.

You cannot seduce from longing.

You cannot seduce from chaos.

You cannot seduce from emotional collapse.

The feminine does not respond to your words even your intentions.

She responds to your frequency.

Your nervous system is the real broadcast tower.

When your field is clean, grounded, and coherent, she feels:

Safety

Direction

Sexual polarity

Stability

Clarity

When your field is unstable, she feels:

Pressure 

Need

Hesitation

Emotional noise

Energetic collapse

This is why some women pull away even when you’re being “nice” and why others soften the moment your inner state settles.

She isn’t reacting to your words.

She’s reacting to your nervous system signature.

This is the first secret of psychic seduction:

Before she can feel you, your field must become still enough for your signal to sharpen.

Most beginners try to send erotic energy or emotional interest while their internal field is chaotic:

Breath shallow

Mind racing

Heart tight

Emotions compressed

Intention scattered

Energy leaking outward

This creates a distorted broadcast, and the feminine withdraws because she cannot trust what she feels.

But when you shift your baseline state —when you slow your breath, settle your chest, drop into your spine, and hold intimate charge without leaking —Your entire field reorganizes.

This creates the masculine signature she responds to:

“I don’t need you. I choose you.”

Those six words define the difference between an unstable man and a magnetic one.

This is not arrogance.

It’s coherence.

And coherence is polarity.

A grounded baseline state does three things energetically:

1.It stabilizes your field

Your energy stops shaking and becomes a steady vertical current.

2.It intensifies your presence

Your attention becomes directional instead of scattered.

3.It increases your erotic voltage

Not outward lust — internal charge held inwardly like coiled electricity.

This is what she feels first.

Not your desire.

Not your fantasies.

Not your thoughts.

Your stillness, your coherence, your unspoken intention — this is the signal that sharpens the psychic channel.

Once this state is established, the channel opens effortlessly.

Her awareness opens to you.

Her defenses lower.

Your presence slips into her field.

She becomes wet out of the blue.

And only then — only then — can true seduction begin.

Because without this foundation, everything else collapses.

Establish the Psychic Channel (The Silent Pathway Between Two Fields)

Once your baseline state is stable, something subtle happens:

Your energy becomes audible to her.

Not as words.

Not as thoughts.

But as presence.

Now you’re ready for the next step — opening the psychic channel.

But you must keep your hands on the steering wheel because this is where most throw themselves off the path,I did this too a lot as a beginner.

I tried too hard.

I fantasized.

I imagine dialogues.

I forced connections.

I waited for signs.

All of that collapses the field.

Because the psychic channel is not created through imagination…

and not through mental noise.

It is created through attention.

Through awareness and presence.

A clean, relaxed, focused awareness that subtly turns toward her without grasping.

Think of it like this:

Your presence is the knock.

Her subconscious decides whether the door opens.

Step 1 — Bring Her Into Awareness, Not Imagination

The biggest mistake you can make is trying to picture:

Conversations with her

Her responding

Her saying something

Her thinking about him

Fantasies of interaction

All of that is mental noise.

Psychic connection doesn’t happen in the mind.

It happens in the field.

You simply acknowledge her presence inside your awareness.

Like a candle flame in a dark room —

you don’t grab it, you just notice it.

Light.

Soft.

Unforced.

This is enough to signal your presence across the subtle field.

Step 2 — Feel Her Energy, Don’t Read Her Mind

Telepathy is not about hearing voices.

Trying to have a full-blown conversation in this practice is a sure way to confuse yourself — and slip into mental masturbation — because word-for-word telepathy is extremely rare.

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The key in remote seduction is in sensing states.

When the psychic channel begins to open, what you feel is:

Warmth

Distance

Receptivity

Resistance

Openness

Emotional texture

Softness or tension

This is not her “speaking”.

It is her field reacting to your presence.

Most misinterpret this and think it’s a message exchange.

It isn’t.

The feminine speaks through sensation, not sentences.

Step 3 — Hold Her Lightly in Your Inner Space

The power is in the softness of your attention:

Not gripping.

Not pushing.

Not demanding.

Not searching.

Just holding the awareness of her.

Light.

Intentional.

Grounded.

Like resting your palm on water without breaking the surface.

When you hold a woman like this in your awareness, her subconscious feels it instantly.

Her energy responds.

Her intuition activates.

Her emotional field shifts.

Her thoughts begin drifting toward you.

Her body feels a subtle pull.

This is how the channel opens — quietly, naturally, without effort.

Step 4 — Maintain Neutral Emotional Charge

Another common mistake?

Bringing too much emotion into the channel.

If you project:

Longing

Over-attachment

Fear

Neediness

She closes immediately.

If you project lust without stability — she shields.

If you project confusion — she withdraws.

I’ve learned this the hard way: whenever I’ve broken this law, every woman resisted — even those who were previously warm or receptive.

The field doesn’t lie.

Your internal chaos or uncontained desire immediately signals danger to her nervous system, and her energy pulls back instinctively.

Neutral emotional charge is the masculine key:

Not cold.

Not detached.

Not uninterested.

Just steady and receptive.

This creates a safe container for her field to engage with yours.

Step 5 — Let the Channel Open on Its Own

Here’s the subtle but crucial part:

You don’t open the channel.

Your coherence does.

Your job is presence.

Her subconscious handles the rest.

When your field becomes stable, directional, and grounded, the feminine feels safe enough to open energetically.

You’ll sense it when:

She suddenly feels closer

The air around you gets heavier

Your chest warms

You feel a small “pull” in your sternum

Your thoughts naturally slow

Her emotional state brushes against yours

This is the real signal of connection —

Not a voice.

Not a vision.

Not a sentence.

A felt shift in the space between you.

And once the channel is open, the real seduction begins.

Because now she can actually feel your energetic intention.

Your presence moves differently inside her awareness.

She becomes receptive.

The field between you can be influenced.

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Closing — Step Into the Field She Cannot Ignore

Here’s what the Reddit challenge, the skepticism, and the mockery taught me:

Most men will never understand this.

Most men will never feel it.

They will keep chasing words.

Chasing timing.

Chasing approval.

Chasing desire that can’t be caught with logic or clever messages.

But you are not most men.

Because now you’ve glimpsed Path Two.

You’ve felt — or are ready to feel — the subtle currents that the feminine responds to instinctively.

You understand that attraction is not created with sentences, texts, or explanations.

It is activated through signal, through presence, through coherence.

Desire rises naturally when:

your field is clean

your baseline state is steady

your attention is soft but deliberate

your nervous system is stable

your erotic voltage is held inwardly, like coiled electricity

The feminine doesn’t care about what you say.

She responds to who you are energetically, before words even exist.

The question now is simple:

Are you willing to step into the path where desire is no longer random, where attraction is a broadcast, and your presence becomes magnetic?

Because once you do, you stop chasing.

You stop explaining.

You stop performing.

And everything changes.

You stop hoping she will notice you.

Instead, you become the man she cannot help but feel.

A man she feels is the man she falls for.

This is the final transmission:

Step into your signal.

Hold your presence.

Radiate your coherence.

And watch how desire aligns itself — quietly, inevitably, without words.

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Till next time,

Your Friend,

Tomas.

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