The Secret to Being Felt by Your Crush, Miles Away

You’ve got a crush. She’s on your mind when you wake up, when you’re scrolling, when you’re lying in bed at night replaying moments that barely happened.

Maybe you’ve spoken to her — dropped a comment, cracked a joke, sent a text. Sometimes she responds warmly; sometimes she disappears. Each time she pulls away, it stings.

Or maybe you haven’t said a word yet. Maybe there are barriers — distance, shyness, fear of rejection, not knowing if she’s even available. And yet, she’s there in your thoughts, like a presence you can’t shake.

Either way, the frustration is the same: you want her to feel you, to notice you, to recognize there’s something real in the connection.

So you wonder: do I need the perfect line, the clever angle, some bold move? But the harder you think about it, the more impossible it feels.

I know, because I was there. I obsessed over the same questions, replayed the same scenarios in my head.

And it was in the middle of that frustration, when I didn't know what to do, that I stumbled onto what I’m about to share with you — something I have been testing and proving for over a decade.

One of the hardest truths most men never realize — the part that clashes with everything you’ve been taught about attraction — is this: it isn’t built with words, lines, or even clever body language. Not really.

You might be thinking, “Wait, isn’t that the whole point? I have to say the right thing, do the right thing…” That’s exactly the trap. Because no matter how smooth, how funny, how charming you are, if your presence isn’t felt beneath the words, she won’t register it.

Attraction happens before she even interprets what you say or do. It’s sensed in her body, her nervous system, in the subtle field you radiate. Words are just the confirmation — the icing on a cake that’s already baked.

Because before her mind decides anything about you, her body and nervous system have already made a decision. She already feels you — or she doesn’t — long before you open your mouth.

And that’s what this post is about. Not tricks, not tactics, not pick-up lines. But how to make your crush feel you without saying a single word — by broadcasting a signal so coherent she can’t help but notice.

Without wasting time, let’s dive in.

The Spark That Changed Everything

I was just a country boy.
I lived simply — morning coffee, farm dust on my boots, quiet walks with the woman I thought I’d marry one day.

She was kind. She loved me, in her own way.
We had history — the ups and downs of a two-year relationship.

But something inside me had started to dim.
A silence was growing between us — not the restful kind, but the kind that hollows you out.

She looked at me with eyes that no longer saw who I was becoming.
 

My dreams of going pro in soccer were collapsing after a career-threatening injury.
And while I drifted in disappointment, another man — a millionaire suitor — was luring her with gifts and promises.

Even with all that, we didn’t argue much.
We still took walks, went running, shared laughter.
On the surface, we were the perfect match — a relationship our peers admired.

Then it happened.

One warm afternoon, as we walked to the corner shop, we came across her.
 

Rose.*(Not her real name)

She didn’t speak.
She didn’t smile.
She looked once, then looked away.

But something in her field pierced me like a sunbeam through fog.
I froze mid-step.
My heart stuttered.

I wanted to see her closer. But why?

She was just a girl in jeans, her face half-lit by shade, blemished by mild acne.
 

And yet — she radiated a beauty I had never seen, not even in the women I’d dated before, who were “perfect,” numbering 50 plus.

There was something ancient in her.
Something dangerously familiar.

“What was that?”
“Who is she?”
“Why did my whole chest light up like a storm?”

I couldn’t explain it.
But I felt it —
Like she had brushed the part of me I had long abandoned.

And the strangest thing was…
My girlfriend didn’t even notice.

That night, I lay beside her, restless.
Not just guilty — haunted.

The weeks that followed widened the distance between us.
More silence.
More stifled emotion.
Less laughter. Less presence.

Meanwhile, her attention was slowly being drawn away — deepened by the millionaire’s pursuit.

Crushed, my football career dissolving, I began to collapse into myself.
I stopped making eye contact.
Started drinking and smoking more.
Surrounded myself with the wrong crowd.

I could no longer find myself in her gaze.

Even though I held a diploma in electrical engineering, every time I imagined our future, my soul clenched like a fist.

My world was burning.

The Break

It came quietly.
One grey Sunday, on a couch worn from too many unspoken truths.

“I don’t think we’re what we were.”

Escalating inner tension and betrayal were already devouring me.
My self-worth had been flushed down the drain.
But I didn’t hate her — she had been a good woman. 

A good friend.

I didn’t just walk away from the breakup.
I walked away from the illusion of the life I thought I was building.

And through that crack in my reality… Rose* began flooding in.

The Descent

I became obsessed.
With her body. With the way she moved.

Her walk.
That impossible rhythm — hips swaying with a silent seduction, like she belonged to some current only she could hear.

It was like she had poured a poison of lust into my soul.

At the time, I was reading The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene.
My stares were deliberate. My warm-and-cold behaviors — strategy.

But I wasn’t ready to be direct.
I was still imprisoned by fear — self-doubt, unworthiness.

I wanted her, but only in ways that wouldn’t expose my heart.

The Discovery

I became obsessed with winning her over.
Google became my companion. Night after night, I searched for answers, devouring every article, every forum thread, every “secret” to attraction I could find.

Then I stumbled upon something different — Mind Power Seduction by Amargi Hillier — a 63 page ebook about developing a connection with someone remotely, no matter the distance apart.

It felt like I had discovered lost treasure.

I devoured it with everything I had and started testing the methods the very same day. 

It resonated with something deeper I already knew — the teachings of Napoleon Hill, especially where he wrote:

"Every human brain is both a broadcasting and a receiving station for the vibration of thought." 

I had also studied William Walker Atkinson’s writings on mind power and the idea that thoughts can travel — that energy isn’t limited to the room you’re in.

Armed with that knowledge, I dove in without skepticism.

I practiced. I experimented. And within days, I started seeing signs — subtle but undeniable — that something was happening.

The Signs

I started bumping into her more — sometimes by accident, sometimes not.
We’d exchange glances. A few ‘hi’s. Nothing more.

But the tension built in silence.

I’d pass her home. Moments later, she’d appear behind me — walking the same route.
As if summoned. As if she felt it too.

Over time, the signs became impossible to ignore.
She began orchestrating meet-ups indirectly — little coincidences that felt anything but random.

One day, she waited for me outside a shop, as if she had arranged it, just so we could talk.
Another time, she posted online about a marriage scene that mirrored exactly the remote courtship sessions I had been visualizing.(I share this privately)

What had started as an experiment was no longer just theory. It was happening — in real life.

The Next Chapter

Back then, I didn’t know much about psychic seduction.
I became overly obsessed, so focused on “winning her over” that I grew stiff, rigid — and in the process, I ended up sabotaging the connection.

Life intervened, and I moved to a new location.

At my new internship as an audio-visual assistant at a university, I found myself drawn to another beautiful woman.
 

This time, I approached things differently.
I connected with her remotely, live , energetically, without overthinking or forcing anything.

The signs were immediate and unmistakable.
She would do things that caught me off guard — lingering glances, subtle gestures.

One hilarious moment with her happened one day while we were alone. 

I was connecting with her remotely, psychically, while we were in different parts of the office — she at a reception desk, me in a general office. Out of nowhere, she walked over to where I was.

It was a hot day and there was a fan blowing, and in a teasing, almost seductive move, she subtly unbuttoned her pants and shifted it slightly, letting the breeze catch her in a way that left nothing to the imagination.

We ended up having a brief office affair.(she got a better job)

These early experiences taught me something crucial: psychic seduction isn’t about obsession over results or control.
It’s about attuning to the field, sending a coherent signal, and allowing the connection to respond naturally — sometimes in ways that surprise you entirely.

Why Psychic Seduction Works

If there’s someone in your world — a woman who ignites you the way my first crush did — you know the pull I’m talking about.

You think about her constantly. You dream about her. You replay moments in your head that barely happened. 

Maybe you’ve even tried a few strategies you read online — clever lines, “attraction hacks,” subtle flirting — only to feel frustrated when nothing seems to land.

Or maybe you haven’t said a word. Fear, timing, circumstance, or self-doubt keeps you silent, and yet the pull doesn’t fade. She’s still there in your mind. In your heart. Even in your energy field.

And that lingering question nags at you:

“How do I reach her… without losing myself?”

This is exactly where psychic seduction comes in.

It’s not about manipulation, scripts, or chance encounters.

It’s about learning to broadcast your presence, attune to her energy, and cultivate a connection that can be felt — even when you haven’t spoken a single word. 

Distance doesn’t matter.

They can be somewhere cooking, driving and find themselves thinking about you out of the blue.

Real-Life Stories of Psychic Seduction

If you’re still skeptical about psychic seduction, you’re not alone. 

Many people hesitate to believe that subtle energy and focused mental presence can influence attraction. 

To give you a sense of what’s possible, below are a few compelling links of practitioners proving that psychic  seduction is practical and can be practiced by anyone.

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Their stories illustrate that psychic seduction isn’t just theoretical—it’s something that can be experienced and practiced.

Obviously skepticism will always be there(check some comments) but then it's up to you whether you believe or not.

Modern Science Meets Ancient Wisdom

You might be wondering how this is even possible.

Ever heard of quantum entanglement — where two particles can affect each other instantly, even across vast distances?
Or the growing field of heart–brain coherence, which shows how human emotions and electromagnetic fields influence one another?

These are mainstream science confirming what mystics and sages have always known: we are all connected. 

Thought, intention, and feeling are not just private, isolated events — they’re signals.

Ancient cultures understood this long before quantum physics gave us language for it.
From yogic traditions to indigenous rituals, people have practiced forms of energetic connection, prayer, and sending intention for thousands of years.

Psychic seduction works on the same principle — learning how to focus your energy and broadcast a coherent signal so someone naturally feels you across distances.

When you grasp this, it stops feeling like fantasy and starts feeling like a skill — one that anyone can practice, refine, and embody.

Practice: Your First Step to Being Felt

Here’s something you can start doing tonight — no scripts, no gimmicks, no overthinking.

1. Sit in stillness
   Find a quiet space. Close your eyes, sit with your spine straight. Breathe deeply into your chest, letting your body settle. This is about grounding, not forcing anything.
   
    
2. Anchor in your energy
   Feel the weight of your body on the floor or chair. Let your chest expand with each inhale. Imagine your energy radiating outward, filling the space around you. You are the signal.
   
    
3. Visualize her presence
   See her not as someone you need, but as someone who is already in your field — a presence you influence simply by existing. Imagine sending subtle waves of calm, confidence, and presence toward her.
   
    
4. Hold the field
   Do not try to make her feel anything. Do not chase. Simply exist coherently. Your energy, your calm, your alignment — that is what reaches her nervous system before a single word is spoken.
   
    
5. Practice daily
   Even 5–10 minutes a day shifts your field. Over time, she will start noticing you — not because you forced her attention, but because your presence became magnetic.
   
    

Quick note: The first time you do this, results may feel subtle. That’s normal. The “magic” isn’t in instant reactions — it’s in consistent, coherent energy.

Transformation: When She Starts Feeling You

When you practice this consistently, everything shifts.

Suddenly, her attention is no longer something you chase — it arrives naturally. You notice small signs:

• A smile that lingers a fraction longer than before
  
   
• A glance that catches you even across a crowded room
  
   
• Subtle gestures that feel like invitations without words
  
   

The dynamic flips. You stop performing, explaining, or trying to impress.
Your words become icing on a cake that’s already baked — the connection exists first in energy, in presence, in your coherent signal.

You start walking into a room and noticing the difference: people, and especially her, sense your energy.
 

There’s a calm magnetism, a quiet authority that wasn’t there before. She feels it before she even consciously thinks about it.

And the most important part? You don’t lose yourself in the process.
You are still grounded, aligned, and in your own power. 

Psychic seduction isn’t about coercion or tricks — it’s about becoming the man whose presence she can’t ignore, naturally drawing her into your field.

Dealing With Resistance

Obviously, if there are barriers between you — distance, fear, timing, or her own hesitation — you may encounter resistance.

Psychic seduction doesn’t bypass her free will or boundaries; it works through subtle influence, attunement, and alignment.

Sometimes her energy will feel closed. She may pull away, seem distracted, or act indifferent. Other times, small signals hint at curiosity or attraction, but they may be fleeting. This is not a failure — it’s part of the process.

The key is to hold your field. Stay coherent, calm, and aligned, even when she resists.
Your energy carries more weight than any word or gesture.
Over time, persistence in presence — not pressure — begins to pierce the barriers naturally.

Resistance is a sign that your energy is real.
It’s a mirror showing where you might still be scattered, needy, or misaligned — and it’s also a signal that your growing coherence will eventually be felt, often in ways you can’t yet predict.

Take the Next Step

If you want a structured way to strengthen this signal, hold her attention effortlessly, and practice psychic seduction with clarity, I’ve created a simple 24-page free guide to get you started.

It’s called The Seven Pillars of Psychic Seduction — a step-by-step blueprint for cultivating presence, coherence, and energy that she can feel, even from miles apart.

Download here.

No tricks. No scripts. Just easy practices to help you become the man whose presence magnetizes, naturally drawing her toward you without losing yourself in the process.

If you want personalized guidance in cultivating your signal and developing a connection with her, I offer a free one-on-one session.

During our time together, we’ll explore your goals, so we can decide if we are a good fit to work together.

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If you still have questions about how psychic seduction works—or want to see it unpacked more—be sure to explore my FAQ section. It’s full of insights that clarify the mysteries and give you actionable guidance.

Till next time,

Your Friend,

Tomas

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