The 9 Lies the Matrix Tells You About Love, Sex, and Soul Bonds

“In the age of illusion, love becomes the ultimate rebellion. To remember the sacred is to break the spell.”

In a world where love is sold through algorithms, sex is reduced to a swipe, and soul bonds are dismissed as fantasy, the Matrix feeds us illusions to keep our hearts imprisoned. Most relationships today are not built on sacred union—they are stitched together with emotional wounds, ego contracts, and spiritual amnesia.

But there’s a deeper truth. A mythic truth.

You were not born to chase love. You were born to become love.

And that means breaking free from the nine matrix lies that have been hard-coded into your soul’s perception of intimacy, desire, and connection.

Lie #1: Love Must Be Earned (Matrix Relationship Programming)

The matrix teaches us that we must do something to be worthy of love—look a certain way, act a certain way, achieve certain things. But real love is not transactional. Divine love is remembrance, not reward. Soul bonds are not earned; they are recognized.

This is the Narcissus curse inverted—we chase reflections of worth rather than remembering the divine within.

Truth: Your soul is already lovable in its raw, cosmic essence.

Lie #2: Sex Is Just Physical (Spiritual Sex Suppression)

This is the great dulling spell: sever the spiritual from the sensual. When sex is treated as entertainment or a biological function, we forget its original magic: the alchemical power of union.

Sex is not merely physical—it is a stargate for souls. A sacred act that can ignite ascension or tether you to distortion, depending on your awareness.

Truth: Every sexual act is an energetic ritual—either depleting or empowering your soul.

Lie #3: Soulmates Are a Fantasy (Twin Flames Denied)

The matrix scoffs at soul contracts. It keeps love shallow so you never seek the sacred. But deep in the astral, beyond timelines, you have met them already.

Soul recognition is real—and when it happens, it burns through lifetimes of illusion. Like Eros and Psyche, your union becomes a mythic initiation.

Truth: Some bonds are destined. And when they appear, they activate your evolution.

Lie #4: Desire Is Sinful (Repression of Creative Fire)

Religions and systems of control shame the erotic. Why? Because awakened desire is creative fire. It births realities, heals bodies, opens timelines.

Desire is the Promethean flame of your soul. Suppressed, it festers. Liberated, it creates worlds.

Truth: Sacred desire is a compass—it leads you home to your deepest truth.

Lie #5: If It Hurts, It Must Be Love (Emotional Chaos Normalized)

Many mistake trauma bonds, obsession, and abandonment anxiety for soul-deep connection. The matrix loops your pain into passion, keeping you addicted to emotional chaos.

True love is not confusion—it is expansion. Not gaslighting—it is growth. Not drama—it is devotion.

Truth: True love brings expansion, not confusion. Growth, not gaslighting.

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Lie #6: You Need Another Half (The Fragmentation Spell)

You are not a half. You are not broken. The idea of “completing” yourself through another keeps you fragmented and dependent.

Soul union happens after self-union. Like Inanna descending into the underworld, you meet your beloved only after reclaiming your wholeness.

Truth: You attract what you are—not what you’re missing.

Lie #7: You Only Get One Great Love (Scarcity in Spirit)

Scarcity is the matrix’s favorite tactic. It teaches you to fear losing love, to settle for safety, to believe the best is behind you.

But your soul is not bound by linear timelines. It is limitless. You are not here for scraps of affection—you are here for epic soul recognition.

Truth: The soul experiences many sacred connections. Love is not limited—it’s limitless.

Lie #8: Psychic Seduction Is Evil (Energetic Attraction Misunderstood)

When you begin tapping into telepathic connection, energetic attraction, or astral intimacy, the matrix labels it “evil” or “manipulative.” Why? Because it threatens the illusion of separateness.

But psychic seduction, when rooted in sovereignty and consent, is sacred technology. It is the dance of soul frequencies across realms.

Truth: Conscious energetic intimacy is sacred—it honors free will and soul resonance.

Lie #9: You’re Not Meant for Deep Love (The Core Wound)

Perhaps the deepest lie of all: that you’re unworthy of the cosmic kind of love. That you’ll only get scraps. That epic, soul-awakening love is for movies, not for you.

But that’s the final illusion. Because you are that love. When you reclaim your divine frequency, the mirror appears.

Truth: You are the embodiment of soul love—and you awaken it by remembering.

Breaking the Spell: Deprogramming Your Heart

These nine lies are not just ideas—they are energetic implants. They distort how you relate to yourself and others. But once you begin to awaken, you can feel the falseness of them.

Your soul didn’t come here to play it safe. It came here to remember:

To reconnect with the sacred erotic.

To embody divine love.

To experience conscious, multidimensional union.

But you must deprogram first.

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Peace and Power

Your Friend,

Tomas

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