Masculine Magnetism Isn’t Learned—It’s Remembered (Once You Delete the Matrix) “You don’t need

Some men radiate something ancient.
Not because they studied game. Not because they read all the right books.
But because something in them burned—until the false selves turned to ash.

This kind of masculine magnetism isn’t performative.

This kind of masculine magnetism is not performative.

It doesn’t try.
It penetrates.

Silently. Boldly. Spiritually.

And here’s the thing—it’s not outside of you.
Because it’s not something new.
 It’s something you remember.

You were born with a fire in your chest. A kind of mythic code.
But over time, it got buried. Sedated. Rewritten by systems designed to keep you tame.

This post is a remembering. A map back to your soul-fire.
Not so you can perform.
But so you can burn real again.

Without wasting time.

Let’s dive in..

The False Masculine: Performance vs. Presence

Masculine magnetism isn’t a set of techniques.

It’s not about the perfect “neg,” the alpha pose, or holding frame like it’s a hostage negotiation.

It’s not “text game,” “pre-selection,” or some charisma hack from a dating funnel.

It’s not some alpha routine or clean aesthetic.

It’s an energy—ancient, primal, and encoded in your bones.

But most men never access it.
Why?
Because they’re walking around wearing a mask that was never theirs to begin with.

The Matrix feeds you a counterfeit masculine.
It teaches you to chase, impress, control, or please—to fill the void left by your disconnection from truth.
And this false masculine? It can even hide behind “spirituality” or “niceness.”

You even start thinking you need to learn confidence.
Or study how to be magnetic.
But all that does is take you further from the fire.

The truth is simple:
 You don’t need to become anything—you need to remember who the hell you are.

The Matrix doesn’t just distract you—it rewires your identity into shame and submission. To see how that loop plays out in real time, read:The Shame Loop:How The Matrix Keeps You Submissive 
 

Exorcising the Matrix Imprints: The Sacred Ritual of Soul Reclamation

Before your real masculine energy can rise, you’ve got to descend.
Not into theory. Not into strategy.
Into something darker—and holier.

A firewalk.

Not the kind you do to prove you’re strong.
The kind where your illusions start screaming on their way out.

This isn’t a motivational breakthrough.
It’s an exorcism.
A sacred confrontation with the layers of self that were never really yours.

You’ll need to:

◉ Name the false programs — the buried codes that whisper, “You’re not enough.” Or “You have to earn love by pleasing or dominating.”

◉ Cut the psychic cords — to all the systems and identities that have fed off your masculine confusion, rewarding your silence and punishing your fire.

◉ Face the unintegrated wounds — the abandonment, the father hunger, the shame, the rage that curdled into numbness. These aren’t flaws. They’re portals.

You’ll want to run. Or numb. Or make it intellectual.
But if you stay long enough in that inner furnace—something else starts to stir.

I’ve walked through that fire.
Burned through versions of myself I thought were me.
And I’m still burning.
But every time something false dies, something eternal flickers back to life.

Burn the self that needs her validation.
The boy that wants to be seen as “a good man.”
The ego that confuses emotional control with power.
The inner performer chasing a spiritual badge—or a dopamine rush.

This kind of attraction doesn’t come from performance.
It comes from possession.

Not over her—but of yourself.

Your body possessed by depth.
Your gaze possessed by truth.
Your energy possessed by the God that lives in your bones.

And that possession?
It only comes after fire.

This is the reclamation of your energetic sovereignty.
And it can’t be done from the mind.
It starts in the soul—where the masks live, where the fire waits.

 Face the Unintegrated Wound.

This is where the “conscious king” mask cracks.
Where being the “spiritual guy who gets it” doesn’t save you.
Where performing safety, emotional fluency, or tantric vocabulary becomes just another costume.

Real power isn’t in being “nice.”
It’s in being true.

And truth isn’t gentle.
It’s not always “regulated.”
It doesn’t always smell like Palo Santo.

Sometimes truth shakes.
Sometimes it sweats.
Sometimes it terrifies you before it liberates.

You’ll want to run. Or numb. Or make it intellectual.

You’ll want to optimize this.
Turn it into a framework.
Maybe even write a thread about it.

Anything but feel it.

Because once you do, the mind loses control—And something ancient takes its place.

Something feral.
Something luminous.
Something that doesn’t ask her to trust you...
Because it is trust.

Become The Altar She Burns At.

You can’t do that by “performing polarity.”
You can’t posture your way into presence.
And no amount of “high-value man” content will prepare your nervous system for what sacred intimacy actually demands.

She’s not looking for status as social media purpots.

Hypergamy, often misunderstood as superficial, is actually a signal:
The feminine is searching for the most coherent field.
Not the richest man. Not the most famous.
But the one who can contain her—spiritually, emotionally, erotically.

When she doesn’t find it, her field moves on.
Hence she’s looking for substance.

I touch on this point more in this post.

Substance doesn’t live in your strategies,brother.
It lives in your shadow.
Your wound.
Your refusal to collapse or conquer when met with her chaos.

That’s the alchemy.
That’s the fire.
That’s what makes her feel safe enough to open.

Where the magnetism is forged

Think of the moment she pulled away.
The moment she questioned your intent.
The moment you lost her trust, her gaze, or her arousal.

Not to replay it.
But to stay with it.

Let it crawl into your chest.

And breathe into the burn.
Not to “release” it.
Not to fix it.

Just to hold it.

And it can’t be done from the mind.
You can’t breathwork your way around it.
You can’t sage the shame.
This is a ritual of combustion—
Where your nervous system gets rewired through fire, not affirmations.

And no—this flame isn’t for seduction tactics.
It’s not another “vibe” to raise so you can attract higher-quality women.
It’s who you are when you’re not trying to be anything.

And that, ironically, is when everything starts to move.

 Embodied Prompt

Close your eyes.
Take three deep, slow breaths.

Feel the weight of every role you’ve had to play—The pleaser. The tough guy. The charmer. The “nice” one. The apologizer. The ghost.

Feel how heavy it is to carry what was never real.

Now place your awareness in the center of your chest.
Not your heart—behind it.
There’s a flame there. Ancient. Untouched by programming.

Let it rise.
Let it burn the old scripts to ash.
Let it show you what’s left when the masks are gone.

That’s your power.
Not performed.
Remembered..

Remembering the Sacred Masculine Code: The Dance of Polarity and Power

Once the false begins to burn off, the real emerges.

It’s quiet, but unmistakable.
Grounded. Penetrative. Unshakable.

This is the masculine that listens deeper than the surface.
That feels without flinching.
That leads without having to prove anything.

It awakens the feminine—not by trying to seduce her,but by standing so rooted in truth that her soul recognizes the signal.

It doesn’t chase—it calls.
It doesn’t dominate—it invites.
It doesn’t perform—it transmits.

And here’s the warning:
False masculinity can wear spiritual masks too as I said.
The charming “guru.” The overly nice guy. The one who talks of depth but leaks energy.

If it doesn’t land in the body, if it doesn’t shift the room,
it’s probably another layer of performance.

Remember, you’re not here to be impressive.
You’re here to be undeniable.

You’re the flame keeper. The one who remembers.

Practical Pathways to Remember Masculine Magnetism

No more theory. This is where it gets lived.

Here are five ways to walk as the man who burns real:

◉ Grounding as Ritual

Root your nervous system in something ancient.
Breathe deep. Walk barefoot. Meditate in stillness.
Let your presence begin below thought.

◉ Energetic Hygiene

Clear your field.
Use sound, breath, cold, or smoke to sweep psychic debris from your aura.
Don’t leak your signal. Don’t carry energy that isn’t yours.

◉ Shadow Integration

Face the parts you’ve been afraid to look at—your fears, your anger, your softness.
Real masculine power doesn’t come from perfection. It comes from truth.

◉ Purpose Alignment

Ask what actually burns in you.
Follow the mission that doesn’t come from ego, but from soul.
When you’re aligned with purpose, people feel it.

◉ Deep Presence and Listening

Don’t just listen to others—listen to yourself.
To silence. To energy. To what your body knows before your mind catches up.

Mythic Resonance: The Phoenix and the Masculine Flame

The Phoenix doesn’t just rise.
It burns first.

That’s the masculine path.
The part of you that was built on lies? It has to die.
Not gently. Not politely.
 In flames.

You’ve already died a thousand quiet deaths.
You’ve felt the ashes. You’ve buried old versions of yourself.

Now it’s time to rise—not as an echo, not as a perfect man—
but as something raw, real, and unchained.

You don’t need to become anything.
You just need to stop forgetting who you already are.

Visionary Call to Action: The Awakening of the Penetrative Man

The world’s starving for men who remember.
Not men who perform.
Not men who hide behind charm.
But men who walk in truth.

You’re not here to blend in.
You’re here to break the spell.

To walk as flame.
To lead with soul.
To penetrate with presence.

This path doesn’t begin with rebellion—it begins with spiritual jailbreak. Read this for more on this:Why the Masculine Must Break Free From the Matrix.
 

I didn’t write this from a pedestal—I wrote it from the ashes.
I’m still walking this path. Still shedding layers.
But the fire’s real. And it’s waking something sacred in us again.

Wrap Up

 Are you walking this fire?
What part of you is ready to burn?
Drop your reflections below—I read them all.
And I walk this path with you..

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Till next time 

Your Friend,

Tomas.

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